In a recent post (“It Ends & Ends & Ends With Us: the Ongoingness of Leaving Abuse”), my mention of a “leaving lexicon” seemed to strike a few chords. So, I gave it more thought: how might we build a communal leaving lexicon, especially as a resource for those who still need help leaving?
The #LeavingLexicon Project has begun, and you can play a part:
What quotes were meaningful to your leaving season?
What did someone say that shifted your perspective?
What was the voice in your head whispering?
What was an aspect or emotion of leaving that doesn’t have a word yet but deserves one?
To be clear, I’m not suggesting that words can or should replace tangible resources that are key to leaving—e.g., financial freedom or backup housing options.
But I’ve heard enough leaving stories (including my own) to know that words can offer solace, courage, and the will to live and to leave.
I hope to hear from you in the comments, contact form, or through Instagram.
Let’s help some ladybirds leave.
